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      Be there for others but never leave yourself behind, you just have to say to yourself,
   “I am not willing to accept anything less than what I deserve!
I am smart!
I am beautiful!
I am a good person!
And I deserve to be happy!
THIS IS A WAY TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE
Focus on Fulfillment
When you live a happy life, you make your actions, your choices, and your moments count.  You achieve this by deciding who do you want to be, and what experiences do you want to create.
A simple strategy to focus on fulfillment is to focus on “the greater good” and give your best where you have your best to give.  It’s about playing to your unique strengths, and sharing your gifts with the world, or more specifically, YOUR world.  This will help you rise above the trials and tribulations of daily living, and help you find a higher ground.
Spend More Time in Your Values
Living your values is one of the simplest way to add more happiness to every day.  If you spend a lot of time at work, the best way to make the most of it, is to connect your work to your values.  For example, if you like to learn, then master your craft.  If you like to help others, then find a way to contribute and give back, using your skills, experience, and knowledge.  If you value excellence, then make your work about excellence.
When you spend more time in your values, you enjoy the journey more, regardless of the destination.
Set Your Own Happiness Level
We each have our own happiness level.  Some people have an overall happiness of a 8 or 9 out of 10.  For others, it’s more like a 5 or a 6.  Embrace it, and start from where you are.
One of the best things you can do is find simple ways to gradually improve your overall happiness level.  One of the worst things you can do is compare your happiness level to others, or beat yourself up for not being a shiny, happy person.
As simple as it sounds, I know several people that lead happier lives now, simply because they don’t worry about whether they are beaming with sunshine at every waking moment.  They focus more on living their values, and focusing on fulfillment.  The sunshine happens along the way, and in more frequent doses now.  Sometimes they just have to take off their shades to see it.
Drive from Happiness
Decide to drive from happiness.  Happiness is a decision.
This is where you have to look inside, and answer the tough questions.  What do you like to do?  What makes you happy?  What do you want to do more of.
It’s very easy to keep doing the things that we think others expect from us, or want for us. Instead, look inside and find the things that really do make you happy, and do more of that.
Don’t Fall for the “If-Then” Trap
Don’t fall for the “if-then” or “when-then” traps … “I’ll be happy if I get that job,” “I’ll be happy when I get that house,”  “I’ll be happy if I get that relationship,”, etc.
It’s easy to put your happiness “out there” instead of “right here.”
You know what happens when you finally climb to the top of the mountain?  There’s another mountain.  That’s the Happiness Conundrum.
Most importantly, remember that it’s the journey and the destination, and sometimes the journey is all we’ve got, so make the most of it.
Raise Your Frustration Tolerance
If you raise your frustration tolerance, you can instantly raise your overall happiness level on a daily basis.
The beauty of this insight is that it works in an instant.  All you have to do is decide not to be frustrated by all the little things that don’t go your way on a daily basis.  There are so many things that can cause frustration in your day to day if you let them.  Don’t get mad at the tree, go around it.  Don’t get frustrated by the traffic, leave earlier.  If it happens, it happens.  Focus on what you control, and let the rest go.  Find the humor in it.  Find the lesson.
Point Your Camera on Purpose
Your the director of your life.  Point your camera at the things that you want more of.
You get what you focus on.  You can point your camera at more pain, or more pleasure.  That’s a powerful choice, and it’s a powerful metaphor.
It’s easy to test.  Simply start pointing your camera at better scenes each day, and watch what unfolds in yourself, and the world around you.

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