Most Men often choose a woman based on the sex (or the prospect of it), and end up falling in love; while women generally choose a man based on the love they feel, and end up enjoying sex. All this is a total generalization, but you get my point. Men tend to focus on sex. Women tend to focus on love.
This is one of the most obvious reasons why sex is important I think.
Of course being intimate with one another is going to bring you two closer.
The simple fact that you are seeing each other naked is enough to bring you closer.
Sometimes being very much in love and being attracted to each other, doesn’t mean the sexual chemistry is there.
Once you two have found your groove in the bedroom, you should see that chemistry coming together. It’s not just the intermingling of juices. It’s not even that two people shared an act of love with someone, that they most likely hold sacred. What’s really happened is that there has been a union between two people that transcends time and space. And we know it. Yet it’s very hard to quantify. Right? We all know how close we feel to someone after we have sex. That doesn’t mean it’s the magical elixir for all that might be off or dysfunctional in a relationship
Keep this in mind too, there are many things you can do that are flirtatious, intimate and nourishing besides just the act of sex. Foreplay is lots of fun and definitely helps set the tone for better lovemaking. It for sure creates more emotional intimacy which strengthens the bonds of lovemaking.
I will love to hear more about your experience of love and sex in your life, please feel free to share your comments below.




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