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  Lesbianism, in the most simplified form, is the homosexuality of women. A female person is called a lesbian when she expresses her sexual and romantic desires toward another female. By the laws of nature all the living creatures are born with the inborn instinct to mate with opposite sex.
  But lesbianism is an exception to this law of nature; as a lesbian will generate no feelings of romance towards the opposite sex, but shows sexual feelings only to a same sex being. Today many countries have made lesbian relationships legal and lesbian marriages takes place in western countries. Today lesbianism is no more considered a taboo in modern societies, but only a slightly deviated way of thinking.
Whereas Lesbophobia is a movement to silence lesbians everywhere, to double dose lesbians with sexism and homophobia and dare them to challenge that erasure of who and what they are.
                                               Causes of lesbianism
  Lesbianism can be caused by both mental and physical reasons. Many a times a person develops lesbian traits at the early childhood itself. Certain physical conditions back lesbian mentality. Today, lesbianism is no more concerned a mental disorder. But it is proved that lesbianism is more a mental orientation than a physical disorientation. Psychology says that a great number of lesbians have developed homosexual desires as a regression to the earlier stages of development.
   There are two common models of lesbianism. If a girl experiences the company of other girl or girl more than that with a boy, she may possibly become a lesbian. On the other hand, if a girl, by whatever reasons, happened to hate a boy or boys, she may become a lesbian. In fact, lesbianism can be derived from uncommon attachment to a girl or from hatred to boys. The physical reasons include sexual disabilities of different kinds.
                                       Social issues related with lesbianism
  Though legally supported, lesbian couple often feel socially neglected and looked down upon. Society always takes its own time to change the deep rooted mentalities. The number of lesbian couples is increasing day by day as today people have all the freedom to identify their sexual orientation and select a lifestyle independently. The bulging issue associated with lesbianism is the increasing number of ‘fatherless’ babies. Lesbians, if they prefer to have a baby, have to either adopt or approach a sperm donor to mother a baby. These children are fated to grow as ‘fatherless’ kids.
  Babies growing with lesbian parents will lack the awareness of healthy family relationships which he/she has to learn from the families. Usually, the marriage between a man and woman is not just to satisfy the sexual needs, but to accomplish the social needs of procreation and mental needs of sharing the love. But a lesbian union is always based on the sexual aspect only. A baby grown between lesbian parents has all the possibilities of lagging behind other kinds in mental growth and maturity.
                                             Can lesbianism be treated?
Lesbianism is never a disorder to be treated and cured; it is just a sexual orientation. They are neither mentally, nor physically ill. There are certain therapies like reparative or conversion therapy that claim to have treatments to convert sexuality; though not proved by researches and not accepted by scientific society. The thought of a treatment emerges when we take lesbianism as a disorder. Lesbianism is a trait, may be, just as your liking for a particular food item.
  But if you have misidentified your sexuality and became a lesbian, then proper counselling could help you to regain the right path. If somebody feels that she should be cured from lesbianism, then it is a clear sign that she is not a lesbian at all. The attitude of the people living around may make somebody to think about a suppression of the lesbian desires. It is important to admit the sexual orientation to lead a happy sexual life. Once admitted explore all the pleasure from it and live happily.
                                                      Causes of lesbianism
1. Dysfunctional family atmosphere
Negative family environment is often the main reason for many psychological disorders, because during the pre-adolescent and adolescent periods, family issues and a lack of contact between parents and children exert a big negative influence on the child’s personality development.
2. Emotional insecurities
The daughter of unloving parents is often a person whose heart is covered with emotional scars that make her adulthood painful, difficult and problematic due to the strong influence of emotional insecurities that tie her hands and make her unable to change the situation for the better. Modest and diffident girls are often chronic outsiders, because they find it difficult to uphold their rights and opinions.
3. Physical flaws
Life of a plain girl is difficult, because this, at first glance, warm-hearted and empathetic society isn’t as kind as it may seem. There are a lot of beautiful and attractive ladies which embarrass plain girls and hit where it hurts by pointing out their flaws.
4. Excessive curiosity
Modern generation’s life motto is, “Live your life to the fullest and try everything while you’re young, beautiful and healthy.” As a result, many girls try everything and lesbianism is no exception. Even women who have a heterosexual relationship sometimes show interest in lesbian sex.
5. Inborn inclination to lesbianism
Do you agree that inborn inclination to lesbianism is possible? I’ve always thought that lesbianism is the result of improper upbringing. But it turns out that I was mistaken, because much depends on hormones. Scientists have found that there’s a significant biochemical difference between heterosexual and lesbian women. Lesbian’s endocrine system doesn’t produce enough oestrogen. On the contrary, their blood is full of testosterone.
6. Hatred towards men
Relationship between a man and a woman is a constant confrontation that consists of grudges, tears and fights, albeit it’s not a main reason why women join a man-hating club and become lesbians. What is the origin of this strong hatred?
Hatred towards men and subsequent lesbianism can be triggered by some kind of emotional or sexual abuse and leave deep scars in the subconscious mind of young ladies. If they don’t receive help from parents or psychologists, they have trouble overcoming the fear of men. Over the years, deep-seated fears, wounds and inner conflicts can only intensify the problem and give birth to an unbelievably intense disgust and hatred towards men.
            7. Women understand each other better
Men and women will never reach mutual understanding and build harmonious relationship because their outlooks, behaviors, habits, reactions, dreams and goals are absolutely different. Women are more emotional and sensitive by nature. They need to talk their contradictions, ideas and thoughts out and share their inner emotions with their significant others. Unfortunately, men are bad comforters. They take a sober look at challenging situations, think rationally and logically.
  Women who can’t close their eyes to monogamy, sexual dissatisfaction and misunderstanding in the relationships with their men, get seriously interested in lesbianism. Lesbian relationship gives them an opportunity to finally reach mutual understanding, talk for hours, cry on each other’s shoulders and find the right words to inspire and cheer up the partner.
The first step for her to quit lesbianism is for her to make up her mind and decide within herself that she doesn’t want to be involved in it anymore. Then she needs to be counselled spiritually and psychologically. Sincerely Quitting that lifestyle is possible she only needs a change of mind-set and the will to get the best out of heterosexual relationships since even with lesbians they have challenges as in any relationship

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